I love your openness Arnold. Do you have a girlie name you like too?? Would you like to share time with my hubby while I am away flying? Be his girl or gurl?.....giggle!!! I thing it would be wonderful. There is no need to be shy with him or me. Really there is little he has not used me for or done with me. But he is alwasy gentle and loving and satisfies every desire i have.......XOXOXXOX susan